If your friend or loved one has experienced sexual misconduct, you may be wondering what to do. The most important thing you can do is listen to them. As they talk, be careful not to judge them. Show that you believe them and ask them how you can help. You can encourage them to seek assistance, but let them have control over what happens next, such as filing a report.
Be sure to take care of yourself, as well. You can talk to a counselor at Counseling and Consultation Services to help you process what happened.
Some NIU employees are considered responsible employees. If a responsible employee becomes aware of sexual misconduct, they must report it to the Title IX coordinator. This can lead to an investigation. If you're not sure if you're a responsible employee, contact the Title IX coordinator at 815-753-5560 or firstname.lastname@example.org.
If you're a responsible employee, here's what to do if a student or employee tells you about sexual misconduct: