People respond to traumatic events differently. We cannot control how we respond; we can only accept how we are emotionally and physically responding. It is important to work at not giving in to our avoidance tendencies and take small steps to face what we experienced and how we are feeling.
Sometimes people who have survived a traumatic event act as if they are in danger when they get stressed or are reminded of the trauma. Concerns about being safe are heightened and at times people dealing with their fear may become overly aggressive, lashing out to protect themselves when there is no need.
Although thinking about the trauma and re-experiencing our reactions to the trauma is unpleasant, it is a sign that the body and mind are actively working to understand and cope with what has happened.
Physical Reactions
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Emotional/Cognitive Reactions
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Avoidance Reactions
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Insomnia- sleeping less than 6 hours and having nightmares | Shock, terror, fear, irritable, anger, guilt, sadness | Avoiding conversations and anything that may remind you of the event… places, people, activities |
Fatigue: your body feels heavy, slow, exhausted | Helpless, vulnerable, anxious | Trouble remembering important parts of what happened during the trauma |
Decreased appetite, gastrointestinal upset | Memory impairment, disbelief, confusion, nightmares | Shutting down emotionally |
Increased physical pain, headaches | Self-blame, distrust, blaming others; Increased relational conflict | Trouble having loving feelings or any strong emotions |
Heart palpitations or pains in the chest, feeling shaky and sweaty | Impaired concentration and intrusive thoughts/memories; Impaired decision making ability | Avoiding situations that might make you have a strong emotional reaction |
Dizzy spells, difficulty breathing | Tunnel vision, dreamlike, spacey feeling | Losing interest in things you usually enjoy |
Reduced immune response, vulnerable to illness | Feeling numb physically and emotionally | Feeling disconnected from the world around you and things that happen to you |
Hyper-arousal and startle response | Impaired work/school performance; Not productive | Feeling strange, not yourself |
(adapted from Disaster Mental Health Response Handbook, p. 28)
The physical and emotional reactions/symptoms of the trauma lessen with time in duration, frequency, and intensity. Recurring thoughts, dreams or flashbacks are normal and will decrease over time, becoming less painful. If your reactions interfere with your ability to continue your normal activities, and particularly if they interfere with sleeping, you may want to seek help. Contact the NIU Employee Assistance Program at 753-9191.
For more information contact the NIU Employee Assistance Program at 815-753-9191
For more information, contact the NIU Employee Assistance Program at 815-753-9191